Murphy's Law or emphasis of the negative. Who has not used that when something bad happens? Especially in circumstances where you say "Damn, had to go now!".
Murphy's law says "If something can go wrong will go wrong. "but by that same token I could say if anything can go well, because there is not going to be okay?
The fact is that regardless of the situations that could use this phrase such as
- When I have a job interview: the car does not run or stain with something before I arrive.
- When I leave home as scruffy who has given birth mother and me meeting with the guy I like (not anymore, but it has happened)
- Another option is to stop at a bakery to buy a loaf of chocolate because I feel depressed and at that moment I am enjoying it and putting gocha with the bun goes the guy you like and looks at you and greet you with "hello, see how you are getting" and you get the giggles and see the weird looks you and when she turns around you look in a mirror and you have all your teeth black chocolate ...
- Or you spend the afternoon studying (this as a student) and when you decide to take a break and get to do anything else to enter your mother fourth and punished for not studying.
- Another student, you enter the examination that you had ruled it did not seem important to study "and you do not go .."
So mixed with thousands of random bad luck but then think, "If you can go wrong will go wrong" there is a long way.
You see I have a person close to that for a time I think it is going through a depression and see it all dark, black, very black and I try to encourage her and tell her that just by being alive we give thanks.
I say you have to have dreams, expectations, goals, objectives and she says "chasing dreams is for films, or for those people born with the star to get what they want, for people normal, and you do not speak from experience, we have to make do with what life gives us, which are usually disappointments, always uphill and stairways that are going up and up and up "
I say "if everyone thinks like you, there would be discoverers or hope, that there are people born with adversity and not give up.
I think that is how everyone takes life, you give up do you think that life is full of disappointments? I think tb but also of hope and great people, and also hopes that we do.
I think that is how everyone takes life, you give up do you think that life is full of disappointments? I think tb but also of hope and great people, and also hopes that we do.
I have a bad days, days when I think life is being unfair to me, scolds me boss, I go up the floor and putean, yes, but I have work, how many people are almost in the street without being able to sleep at night drowned by debt I have a broken heart, and I think as I can be so frazzled but good for something like this arise again. I had an abortion, because if it is very painful, it's horrible, but worse would be unable to have children, or who was sick.
When all those negative thoughts go through my mind as I remember it fighters:
That life has put him on a path full of obstacles and is now in front of a wall but not deterred leaves, which is there to give encouragement to others and telling life , no matter what you do because I'm going to keep fighting.
That's what I want you to understand this person close to me, because she is actually life has not treated as well as they wanted, no one said that Life was easy, but only up to us as we live, there are problems and disappointments as yes, but in us is to learn to overcome or alleviate them.
Sometimes I think my brain is a bit intransigent with these things because I understand that everyone spent periods of downturn and sadness but it is very difficult to understand how someone does is able to find something to live for you happy, maybe he only people who go through that you understand, I hope not to have to understand it ever.
I leave a wonderful video of a person it has taken some guts to life, and you will come crooked but learning to put it right.
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